cuti semester..

cuti semester dh oww...
hahaha..
boring glk ba..
x tauk mok plh pa???huhu

tension...

final ku bleh dkata kan suma anco..
huhu...
omg!!!!
aku blank lps ngga question paper....
llh2 ku blaja,pande blank dkya ndah..
mayb tlbh confident li pat jwab...
huhu...
trk ba...
btw..
hrp2 ku pat plh k next paper..

GuD LuCK!!!

Good Luck 4 Exam!!!
do The Best k...

summary....

In this subject, i learn much about communication. For me, this is interesting subject for this semester. I love this subject. This topic, we were interpersonal communication preliminaries, messages: verbal and nonverbal and interpersonal relationships. It was divided into a smaller chapter.

Chapter 1: We learned about importance of interpersonal in our relationships with people. Beside, we learn nature and element in it like the relation that can develop in face to face and who the source-receiver in each conversation.

Chapter 2: we learned about culture in interpersonal communication. Culture is dividing into two; acculturation is a culture that you born with. Enculturation is culture that you learn and differ from you culture. You can learn how culture from one another like-power-distanc differs.

Chapter 3: In this chapter, we learn a lot about ourselves through self-concept, self- awareness, self-estemm and self-awareness. We also may realize ourselves through Johari Window that teaches in this chapter.

Chapter 4: This chapter teaches us about perception and what influence your perception toward something.

Chapter 5: Listening, it is a key word for this chapter. We learn about listening and effective listening.

Chapter 6: We learn about a verbal and nonverbal message. We also learn about principles such as it meaning and messages.

Chapter 7: These chapters give more information about verbal messages. It teach what is really are verbal messages.

Chapter 8: This chapter about nonverbal messages. It give know what are function and channels in this nonverbal messages.

Chapter 9: This chapter is about the conversation process and conversational management. It can tell us how to make the conversation is prefect.

Chapter 10: Universals of Interpersonal Relationships are we learn in this chapter. Its make us know characteristics and stages in interpersonal relationships.

Chapter 13: This chapter teaches us how to manage our conflicts and told about principles of interpersonal conflict.

Give me

In Conclusions, I learned a lot in this subject especially the way I communicate with my family, friend and whoever I know. Some topics that I learned, I apply in into my life. I feel more confident toward myself.

ChAPtEr 13..

Interpersonal Conflict..
Do you hear ever hear word conflict??
Of course you hear it…
It is a word that can make people fight..
For myself I also have some conflict..
Everybody having a conflict ..
They cannot avoid from it..
May I right??
Conflict can happens in every relation I in this world..
Often we heard that conflict happen in family when one of their relatives death..
The main thing can make a conflict is money..
So, to avoid this happen..
Each of the relatives must have their owns responsibilities especially when handle conflict..
but the important thing is we must always take the conflict as a positive not a negative..because not all conflict is negative..
competing is important in conflict because it can increase our confident and became more motivated...
we must avoid from situation i lose you lose..because it seem you not interested to win that situation. but for me, i like this situation.
the best thing that i like is i win you win..
this situation can make the winner became more friendly and can avoid from conflict...
so dont think that the conflict in interpersonal relations is bad or can make things became worst cause sometimes people can realize a truth thing because of conflict..

ChApTeR 10...

Universal of interpersonal relation..
Interpersonal is important to us..
It exists between friend, family, chatting friends, and other kind of relation..
For me interpersonal exist anytime, anyplace…
And because of interpersonal exist especially with boys I felt different..
May we are not same gender..
Haha
Whatever..
By the way..
Back to interpersonal relation..
I also have a interpersonal..
With my friends..family..people around me..
But even we have relations with them but we also must respect them whoever they are..
Interpersonal relation also sometime about culture..
Like me, I have a relation with different culture..
Like my relation with my boyfriend..
In interpersonal also have its stages, like contact, involvement, intimacy, deterioration and repair and dissolution.
Example..
If we fall in love with somebody, firstly we must ask for number telephone. From there, we will be in involvement. After a few months, we became intimacy. Lastly, we decide how far our relation. It is a lover or just friend?? From there we repair or dissolution our relation.
So, interpersonal relation is very important because it may help us in communication.
Why I told that??
Because if we fall in love with somebody, we will try our best to know her/him by asking her background, favorites or so on with their family or friend even though we are shy person. The personality or the ways we spoke will changes.
That why i said interpersonal relation is important.

ChApTeR 9...

When we hang out or go for shopping, sometimes we often met people that we know even it is the person we like or not. Of course if we met them, sometimes we felt like don’t want to say hai and felt like ran away from them. May I right? I also feel that especially if meet people that I dislike. If we meet people that we long time not see, at least talk to them and asking what she/he doing now and she/he is talkative person that is the most difficult especially that time we are busy doing our work. So, this conversation must end with ending conversation and not end with unhappy conversation

Maybe some of you don’t know that conversation should have five steps in it.

Firstly is opening. Opening usually is a greeting like hai, good morning and so on.

It is like an open channel to start a conversation.

Secondly is feedforward. Feedforward is a topic that we talk in the conversation like “Do you heard about a Janice married?”

Thirdly is Business. Business is we talk what is goal in our conversation.

Fourthly is feedback. Feedback is we reverse the second step in our conversation like “why with Janice married”

Fifthly is closing. Closing is to say good bye like “I see you soon”

But we must remember that we cannot talk any topic that we like because some people or countries have conversation taboos like politics, religion, and social status. We also must learn how to manage our conversation. Beside, when we turn we should listen and take turn to talk.

And for my experience I love to hear what people talked about that joined the conversation except I already close with that people then I can be a talkative person and I think that I never follow the process in the conversation. Hehe..

And speaker always follow the rules because they do not want their audiences or listener bored.

cHaPtEr 8...

Nonverbal messages
In daily life..
We always use nonverbal communication when communicate with people..
Especially,
When we meet people pass by in the road..
We seldom stop car just because want to say hai to that people..
We just use emblems to say hai..
Beside sometimes we use illustrators when we talking to kids about circle or something large..
Sometimes we also use facial communication..
Example..
Amir and Zarul is bestfriend. Zarul getting marries soon. He told Amir about getting married. Amir happy with his friend getting marries.
Amir happy is a facial communication toward his friend. He should not sad about her friend weddings. He should have facial management.

Eye communication also important in nonverbal communication..
Because of eye we can know what can people feel about what we talking about or we can control conversation that happens in us.

In this topic also I learn about how to control conversation with audients or people that we talk to.
The distances when talk to people must follow the comfortable distance between you and people such as personal distance, social distance and so on.
For me, I often use this nonverbal communication when I have bad mood or lazy to talking a lot..
I think it is also a good way to us express what in our heart bye using nonverbal messages.

today is mine..

today is my bday..
i am now 19 years old..
huhu
im grow up now dear!!!!
but i hate today..
i dont noe y..
huhu..
is not good rite..
i thinks so..
emmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......

CHapTeR 7...

“You affect your subconscious mind by verbal repetition.”

By W.Clement Stone Quote

Verbal messages………
To be honest I am not understand much this topic…
But I tried to read and understand what is in this topic…
Finally…
I understand..
These topics mostly talk about language…
Is not language that we use for spoken …
It about language that we want to delivered to people especially in cultural identified..
Examples of cultural identified are girl and boy, gay, lesbian and ethnic (African American, Indian, and so on)
This means they identified their cultural origin (Joseph A. Devito)
Back to the language, its can express both fact and inferences..
For example..
a) Amir wears black shoes this morning…
In this sentence we can agree the fact because its already happen

b) Amir might wears black shoes this evening..
In this sentences we can agree that it just inferences because we already observe it..

Make observation it good and we should apply it in our daily life..
Language also often in denotation and less in connotation..
Denotation is general or universal and connotation is personal..
Language also criticize and praise..
You may not really understand it..
I am trying to explain and if I explain in story telling you might could not understand at all..
Verbal Messages………
It important to our life..
Because it can show your interest toward something..
And it can make people confirm what you are trying to say....
And also make people disconfirm what you say..
For example again..
Amir asks Yasmin about how his look and dress up in dinner last night.
Yasmin said it great and Yasmin try avoid direct eye contact.
It show that Yasmin disconfirm amir look and dress up last night..

“People want to listen to a message, word from Jah. This could be passed through me or anybody. I am not a leader. Messenger. The words of the songs, not the person, is what attracts people.”
From Bob Marley Quote…

hate it!!!

bnck ba......
knk xpat pre reg course..
huhuu.......
ngegeh na jwak..
dr rya try p xpat jwak...
phl owwwwwwww..............
huuu
sdih na jwak ba
bnck2.........
sa ba jak la..
pa ka..

ChApTeR 6...

For today, my topic is universals of verbal and nonverbal messages.
Before this, in my past topic,..
I had talked bout verbal and non verbal..
Maybe..
Some of you might not understand what it is..
In our life,
We interact with each other using nonverbal and verbal communication..
Do you realize it??
Symbol is one of verbal and nonverbal sometimes
It is give meaning to us..
Like this symbol

Smile at you..
Different countries have their on meaning in that symbol..
Beside…
Meaning have their own definition..
In my book that I learn..
Meaning is an active process created in cooperation between source and receiver, speaker and listener, writer and reader.
If you make some gestures to people,
You may do not expect what they thinking and feeling about your gestures..
Because some meaning that you want delivered may more that word and gestured that you make..
Because what verbal and nonverbal communication that we want to deliver or give meaning are unique, in people, more than words and gestures and context-based.
Like I said before..
No matter we want communicate with someone..
We must make sure that everything that we want tells people,
We must carefully and make sure our verbal and nonverbal is match with situation…
I am also reminding to myself about my gestures or word when I am talking, looking at someone and when I text SMS with my friend.

ChAPteR 5..

Listening…
You might think it connected to what you hear when someone spoken??
Is it I am right???
But it not..
Cause listening is not same as hearing..
Hearing is physiological process that occurs when you’re in the vicinity of vibration in the air and these vibrations impinge on your eardrum (Joseph A. Devito)..
I took this meaning of hearing from “The Interpersonal Communication Book”
And listening is different..
As I know, listening have 5 process..
It is receiving, understanding, remembering, evaluating and responding..
Do you want know about it..
Ermm..
If I explained here I think you all must don’t understand what I am trying to tell about..
May I right??
Hehehe..
Sorry because I didn’t explain more about it..
All of us like to listen something..
But in this listening..
I means different thing about listening….
Like..


If we like someone and the person that we like in front of us..
We may look at him up and down..
But don’t you know that the person might be think that we don’t like him/her,
rather than think that you like him/her..
This is because the way we look at her/him..
This type of listening that I mean..
Cause listening have a different type..
I am like to looked at people like they were stranger..
And my behaviors that love to looked peoples strangely,
Make my friends and my family always give me some advices that do not looked at people that ways..
And their were right because some people misunderstood when they I looked at them..
And I want to tell you all that..
Listening is not that hear someone spoken..
Is also related with non-verbal and verbal action that us give to people..
As a human our verbal and non-verbal may make people understood..
So, we must careful we make some action to people,.

tension @ malas??

dh hari ke 3 dh study week tok..
msh jwak lom blaja2..
lemah nyawa...
mok blaja p malas..
mntg2 la paper start aher..
ilek2 x blaja oww..
huhu..
gney mok pat pointer.
mun mls mik blaja...huhu
so sad rite being lazy..
but mayb mlm tok aku da inspirasi mok blaja li..
juz wait...
haha..
pa2 pun, misa blaja3....gk k...

chapter 4......

Perception....perception…..perception…

That the thing that in our head if we know new people in our life…

It not a word perception that we think about..

It’s a perception towards that person and anything like music, clothes and many more..

Its often when we know somebody that new, if that person look arrogant, rude..

Of course, automatically in our mind, we stereotype that person as what we thinking..

Sometimes it not fair right for the person....

So, we do not judge book by it cover..

We don’t know that the person maybe not like we thinking..

Maybe it difference from what we think..

Like me…

I have my perception on myself..

To be honest,

Sometimes I feel like im the best in what im doing,,,

But actually im not..

Because I cant do what my friend can do..

And again perception..

We apply it in our life..

Don’t ever tell that we never make perception toward people..

But we can prevent it…

Because again, perception cant loose from us…

If you ask me, do I have perception toward another person??

Of course I have..

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do not wat 2 do....

im blur rite now..
x tauk mok polah pa2..
hehe
dh la sok qiz office..
lek2 jak lom blaja..
ish3x...
smpt ngga movies gk ya..
nangga cta 27 dresses..
bez la jwak..
romantik jwak cta ya..
hehe

HoNeyMoon

what means about honeymoon????well, like you all..i also had a experiences bout honeymoon....
ermmm...my 1st honeymoon was after spm examination...it a one of great time that i had...
i just stayed at home...before that, i worked at bata...at home, i didn't do anything...my work at home was slept, eaten, and watched tv..it interesting right??? just eat,eat.haha..did you feel that my honeymoon????whatever,.i will share my real honeymoon k..just wait.....hehe...cause it is not about honeymoon with my 'laki" cause i not yet marry..hahahha

ermmm..so difficult...

susah buat blog tok..but im trying my best to do a perfect blog as i can do....this blog in process..lom siap abis gk...it take a time..sorie yer mdm su..if assigment lom siap gk...especially sal ambiguity ya..sorie..hehe..gotta go cuz want ti renovate more and explore how to make dis blog look cheerful..cantik la..hehe..LOL...

holiday...

holiday time...best la...miss my house so much....by the way..i already at my house now.........haha...

Life...

life...
it hard to say..
ermmm....by the way....
i want to share something for you all...........
3 years ago, i falling in love with someone..
first time we know, through sms...
i thought he was my friend....but he nit my friend..
we become closer each day....
but finally we breakup..it hard but it made me realize that communication is important...
because we had not much communication in our relationship....
now i try to improve my communication skill with my best friend...because i dont want to loose them like i loose that boy .....

OMT155

New semester was began. We are introduced by a new subjects. One of the new our subjects is interpersonal communication. I was taught by Madam Susanna. First class of lectured, she introduced the topic that we would learn in coming few weeks. I found that this subject was interested and i cannot wait to learn the topic. Second class, we were learn about universal of interpersonal about communication. This topic talked about importance, nature, element and so on. It told us that communication is important in our life. It make easier to communicatewith other people.
There are two type of communication. It was verbal and non-verbal. i trying to apply this way communicate in front of people. we must have confident.