ChApTeR 6...

For today, my topic is universals of verbal and nonverbal messages.
Before this, in my past topic,..
I had talked bout verbal and non verbal..
Maybe..
Some of you might not understand what it is..
In our life,
We interact with each other using nonverbal and verbal communication..
Do you realize it??
Symbol is one of verbal and nonverbal sometimes
It is give meaning to us..
Like this symbol

Smile at you..
Different countries have their on meaning in that symbol..
Beside…
Meaning have their own definition..
In my book that I learn..
Meaning is an active process created in cooperation between source and receiver, speaker and listener, writer and reader.
If you make some gestures to people,
You may do not expect what they thinking and feeling about your gestures..
Because some meaning that you want delivered may more that word and gestured that you make..
Because what verbal and nonverbal communication that we want to deliver or give meaning are unique, in people, more than words and gestures and context-based.
Like I said before..
No matter we want communicate with someone..
We must make sure that everything that we want tells people,
We must carefully and make sure our verbal and nonverbal is match with situation…
I am also reminding to myself about my gestures or word when I am talking, looking at someone and when I text SMS with my friend.