Thursday, April 16, 2009

ChAPteR 5..





Listening…
You might think it connected to what you hear when someone spoken??
Is it I am right???
But it not..
Cause listening is not same as hearing..
Hearing is physiological process that occurs when you’re in the vicinity of vibration in the air and these vibrations impinge on your eardrum (Joseph A. Devito)..
I took this meaning of hearing from “The Interpersonal Communication Book”
And listening is different..
As I know, listening have 5 process..
It is receiving, understanding, remembering, evaluating and responding..
Do you want know about it..
Ermm..
If I explained here I think you all must don’t understand what I am trying to tell about..
May I right??
Hehehe..
Sorry because I didn’t explain more about it..
All of us like to listen something..
But in this listening..
I means different thing about listening….
Like..


If we like someone and the person that we like in front of us..
We may look at him up and down..
But don’t you know that the person might be think that we don’t like him/her,
rather than think that you like him/her..
This is because the way we look at her/him..
This type of listening that I mean..
Cause listening have a different type..
I am like to looked at people like they were stranger..
And my behaviors that love to looked peoples strangely,
Make my friends and my family always give me some advices that do not looked at people that ways..
And their were right because some people misunderstood when they I looked at them..
And I want to tell you all that..
Listening is not that hear someone spoken..
Is also related with non-verbal and verbal action that us give to people..
As a human our verbal and non-verbal may make people understood..
So, we must careful we make some action to people,.

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