ChApTeR 9...

When we hang out or go for shopping, sometimes we often met people that we know even it is the person we like or not. Of course if we met them, sometimes we felt like don’t want to say hai and felt like ran away from them. May I right? I also feel that especially if meet people that I dislike. If we meet people that we long time not see, at least talk to them and asking what she/he doing now and she/he is talkative person that is the most difficult especially that time we are busy doing our work. So, this conversation must end with ending conversation and not end with unhappy conversation

Maybe some of you don’t know that conversation should have five steps in it.

Firstly is opening. Opening usually is a greeting like hai, good morning and so on.

It is like an open channel to start a conversation.

Secondly is feedforward. Feedforward is a topic that we talk in the conversation like “Do you heard about a Janice married?”

Thirdly is Business. Business is we talk what is goal in our conversation.

Fourthly is feedback. Feedback is we reverse the second step in our conversation like “why with Janice married”

Fifthly is closing. Closing is to say good bye like “I see you soon”

But we must remember that we cannot talk any topic that we like because some people or countries have conversation taboos like politics, religion, and social status. We also must learn how to manage our conversation. Beside, when we turn we should listen and take turn to talk.

And for my experience I love to hear what people talked about that joined the conversation except I already close with that people then I can be a talkative person and I think that I never follow the process in the conversation. Hehe..

And speaker always follow the rules because they do not want their audiences or listener bored.