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In this subject, i learn much about communication. For me, this is interesting subject for this semester. I love this subject. This topic, we were interpersonal communication preliminaries, messages: verbal and nonverbal and interpersonal relationships. It was divided into a smaller chapter.

Chapter 1: We learned about importance of interpersonal in our relationships with people. Beside, we learn nature and element in it like the relation that can develop in face to face and who the source-receiver in each conversation.

Chapter 2: we learned about culture in interpersonal communication. Culture is dividing into two; acculturation is a culture that you born with. Enculturation is culture that you learn and differ from you culture. You can learn how culture from one another like-power-distanc differs.

Chapter 3: In this chapter, we learn a lot about ourselves through self-concept, self- awareness, self-estemm and self-awareness. We also may realize ourselves through Johari Window that teaches in this chapter.

Chapter 4: This chapter teaches us about perception and what influence your perception toward something.

Chapter 5: Listening, it is a key word for this chapter. We learn about listening and effective listening.

Chapter 6: We learn about a verbal and nonverbal message. We also learn about principles such as it meaning and messages.

Chapter 7: These chapters give more information about verbal messages. It teach what is really are verbal messages.

Chapter 8: This chapter about nonverbal messages. It give know what are function and channels in this nonverbal messages.

Chapter 9: This chapter is about the conversation process and conversational management. It can tell us how to make the conversation is prefect.

Chapter 10: Universals of Interpersonal Relationships are we learn in this chapter. Its make us know characteristics and stages in interpersonal relationships.

Chapter 13: This chapter teaches us how to manage our conflicts and told about principles of interpersonal conflict.

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In Conclusions, I learned a lot in this subject especially the way I communicate with my family, friend and whoever I know. Some topics that I learned, I apply in into my life. I feel more confident toward myself.

ChAPtEr 13..

Interpersonal Conflict..
Do you hear ever hear word conflict??
Of course you hear it…
It is a word that can make people fight..
For myself I also have some conflict..
Everybody having a conflict ..
They cannot avoid from it..
May I right??
Conflict can happens in every relation I in this world..
Often we heard that conflict happen in family when one of their relatives death..
The main thing can make a conflict is money..
So, to avoid this happen..
Each of the relatives must have their owns responsibilities especially when handle conflict..
but the important thing is we must always take the conflict as a positive not a negative..because not all conflict is negative..
competing is important in conflict because it can increase our confident and became more motivated...
we must avoid from situation i lose you lose..because it seem you not interested to win that situation. but for me, i like this situation.
the best thing that i like is i win you win..
this situation can make the winner became more friendly and can avoid from conflict...
so dont think that the conflict in interpersonal relations is bad or can make things became worst cause sometimes people can realize a truth thing because of conflict..

ChApTeR 10...

Universal of interpersonal relation..
Interpersonal is important to us..
It exists between friend, family, chatting friends, and other kind of relation..
For me interpersonal exist anytime, anyplace…
And because of interpersonal exist especially with boys I felt different..
May we are not same gender..
Haha
Whatever..
By the way..
Back to interpersonal relation..
I also have a interpersonal..
With my friends..family..people around me..
But even we have relations with them but we also must respect them whoever they are..
Interpersonal relation also sometime about culture..
Like me, I have a relation with different culture..
Like my relation with my boyfriend..
In interpersonal also have its stages, like contact, involvement, intimacy, deterioration and repair and dissolution.
Example..
If we fall in love with somebody, firstly we must ask for number telephone. From there, we will be in involvement. After a few months, we became intimacy. Lastly, we decide how far our relation. It is a lover or just friend?? From there we repair or dissolution our relation.
So, interpersonal relation is very important because it may help us in communication.
Why I told that??
Because if we fall in love with somebody, we will try our best to know her/him by asking her background, favorites or so on with their family or friend even though we are shy person. The personality or the ways we spoke will changes.
That why i said interpersonal relation is important.

ChApTeR 9...

When we hang out or go for shopping, sometimes we often met people that we know even it is the person we like or not. Of course if we met them, sometimes we felt like don’t want to say hai and felt like ran away from them. May I right? I also feel that especially if meet people that I dislike. If we meet people that we long time not see, at least talk to them and asking what she/he doing now and she/he is talkative person that is the most difficult especially that time we are busy doing our work. So, this conversation must end with ending conversation and not end with unhappy conversation

Maybe some of you don’t know that conversation should have five steps in it.

Firstly is opening. Opening usually is a greeting like hai, good morning and so on.

It is like an open channel to start a conversation.

Secondly is feedforward. Feedforward is a topic that we talk in the conversation like “Do you heard about a Janice married?”

Thirdly is Business. Business is we talk what is goal in our conversation.

Fourthly is feedback. Feedback is we reverse the second step in our conversation like “why with Janice married”

Fifthly is closing. Closing is to say good bye like “I see you soon”

But we must remember that we cannot talk any topic that we like because some people or countries have conversation taboos like politics, religion, and social status. We also must learn how to manage our conversation. Beside, when we turn we should listen and take turn to talk.

And for my experience I love to hear what people talked about that joined the conversation except I already close with that people then I can be a talkative person and I think that I never follow the process in the conversation. Hehe..

And speaker always follow the rules because they do not want their audiences or listener bored.

cHaPtEr 8...

Nonverbal messages
In daily life..
We always use nonverbal communication when communicate with people..
Especially,
When we meet people pass by in the road..
We seldom stop car just because want to say hai to that people..
We just use emblems to say hai..
Beside sometimes we use illustrators when we talking to kids about circle or something large..
Sometimes we also use facial communication..
Example..
Amir and Zarul is bestfriend. Zarul getting marries soon. He told Amir about getting married. Amir happy with his friend getting marries.
Amir happy is a facial communication toward his friend. He should not sad about her friend weddings. He should have facial management.

Eye communication also important in nonverbal communication..
Because of eye we can know what can people feel about what we talking about or we can control conversation that happens in us.

In this topic also I learn about how to control conversation with audients or people that we talk to.
The distances when talk to people must follow the comfortable distance between you and people such as personal distance, social distance and so on.
For me, I often use this nonverbal communication when I have bad mood or lazy to talking a lot..
I think it is also a good way to us express what in our heart bye using nonverbal messages.

today is mine..

today is my bday..
i am now 19 years old..
huhu
im grow up now dear!!!!
but i hate today..
i dont noe y..
huhu..
is not good rite..
i thinks so..
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