CHapTeR 7...

“You affect your subconscious mind by verbal repetition.”

By W.Clement Stone Quote

Verbal messages………
To be honest I am not understand much this topic…
But I tried to read and understand what is in this topic…
Finally…
I understand..
These topics mostly talk about language…
Is not language that we use for spoken …
It about language that we want to delivered to people especially in cultural identified..
Examples of cultural identified are girl and boy, gay, lesbian and ethnic (African American, Indian, and so on)
This means they identified their cultural origin (Joseph A. Devito)
Back to the language, its can express both fact and inferences..
For example..
a) Amir wears black shoes this morning…
In this sentence we can agree the fact because its already happen

b) Amir might wears black shoes this evening..
In this sentences we can agree that it just inferences because we already observe it..

Make observation it good and we should apply it in our daily life..
Language also often in denotation and less in connotation..
Denotation is general or universal and connotation is personal..
Language also criticize and praise..
You may not really understand it..
I am trying to explain and if I explain in story telling you might could not understand at all..
Verbal Messages………
It important to our life..
Because it can show your interest toward something..
And it can make people confirm what you are trying to say....
And also make people disconfirm what you say..
For example again..
Amir asks Yasmin about how his look and dress up in dinner last night.
Yasmin said it great and Yasmin try avoid direct eye contact.
It show that Yasmin disconfirm amir look and dress up last night..

“People want to listen to a message, word from Jah. This could be passed through me or anybody. I am not a leader. Messenger. The words of the songs, not the person, is what attracts people.”
From Bob Marley Quote…

hate it!!!

bnck ba......
knk xpat pre reg course..
huhuu.......
ngegeh na jwak..
dr rya try p xpat jwak...
phl owwwwwwww..............
huuu
sdih na jwak ba
bnck2.........
sa ba jak la..
pa ka..

ChApTeR 6...

For today, my topic is universals of verbal and nonverbal messages.
Before this, in my past topic,..
I had talked bout verbal and non verbal..
Maybe..
Some of you might not understand what it is..
In our life,
We interact with each other using nonverbal and verbal communication..
Do you realize it??
Symbol is one of verbal and nonverbal sometimes
It is give meaning to us..
Like this symbol

Smile at you..
Different countries have their on meaning in that symbol..
Beside…
Meaning have their own definition..
In my book that I learn..
Meaning is an active process created in cooperation between source and receiver, speaker and listener, writer and reader.
If you make some gestures to people,
You may do not expect what they thinking and feeling about your gestures..
Because some meaning that you want delivered may more that word and gestured that you make..
Because what verbal and nonverbal communication that we want to deliver or give meaning are unique, in people, more than words and gestures and context-based.
Like I said before..
No matter we want communicate with someone..
We must make sure that everything that we want tells people,
We must carefully and make sure our verbal and nonverbal is match with situation…
I am also reminding to myself about my gestures or word when I am talking, looking at someone and when I text SMS with my friend.

ChAPteR 5..

Listening…
You might think it connected to what you hear when someone spoken??
Is it I am right???
But it not..
Cause listening is not same as hearing..
Hearing is physiological process that occurs when you’re in the vicinity of vibration in the air and these vibrations impinge on your eardrum (Joseph A. Devito)..
I took this meaning of hearing from “The Interpersonal Communication Book”
And listening is different..
As I know, listening have 5 process..
It is receiving, understanding, remembering, evaluating and responding..
Do you want know about it..
Ermm..
If I explained here I think you all must don’t understand what I am trying to tell about..
May I right??
Hehehe..
Sorry because I didn’t explain more about it..
All of us like to listen something..
But in this listening..
I means different thing about listening….
Like..


If we like someone and the person that we like in front of us..
We may look at him up and down..
But don’t you know that the person might be think that we don’t like him/her,
rather than think that you like him/her..
This is because the way we look at her/him..
This type of listening that I mean..
Cause listening have a different type..
I am like to looked at people like they were stranger..
And my behaviors that love to looked peoples strangely,
Make my friends and my family always give me some advices that do not looked at people that ways..
And their were right because some people misunderstood when they I looked at them..
And I want to tell you all that..
Listening is not that hear someone spoken..
Is also related with non-verbal and verbal action that us give to people..
As a human our verbal and non-verbal may make people understood..
So, we must careful we make some action to people,.

tension @ malas??

dh hari ke 3 dh study week tok..
msh jwak lom blaja2..
lemah nyawa...
mok blaja p malas..
mntg2 la paper start aher..
ilek2 x blaja oww..
huhu..
gney mok pat pointer.
mun mls mik blaja...huhu
so sad rite being lazy..
but mayb mlm tok aku da inspirasi mok blaja li..
juz wait...
haha..
pa2 pun, misa blaja3....gk k...

chapter 4......

Perception....perception…..perception…

That the thing that in our head if we know new people in our life…

It not a word perception that we think about..

It’s a perception towards that person and anything like music, clothes and many more..

Its often when we know somebody that new, if that person look arrogant, rude..

Of course, automatically in our mind, we stereotype that person as what we thinking..

Sometimes it not fair right for the person....

So, we do not judge book by it cover..

We don’t know that the person maybe not like we thinking..

Maybe it difference from what we think..

Like me…

I have my perception on myself..

To be honest,

Sometimes I feel like im the best in what im doing,,,

But actually im not..

Because I cant do what my friend can do..

And again perception..

We apply it in our life..

Don’t ever tell that we never make perception toward people..

But we can prevent it…

Because again, perception cant loose from us…

If you ask me, do I have perception toward another person??

Of course I have..